✦ UNCOUPLE BY DESIGN ✦
What to Do, What to Say, What to Protect from Day One.
What to Do, What to Say,
What to Protect from Day One.
From the very first day - even before anything is said or signed - you need a survival guide that helps you think clearly, act strategically, and avoid the costly mistakes most women don’t realise they’re making until it’s too late.
✦ UNCOUPLE BY DESIGN ✦
From the very first day - even before anything is said or signed - you need a survival guide that helps you think clearly, act strategically, and avoid the costly mistakes most women don’t realise they’re making until it’s too late.


I'm so glad we found each other!
Whether through my Divorce Wisdom Survival Guide, the original Hello Mojo divorce documenting app, my socials or working with me 1:1 you’ve already felt how powerful it is to have the right guidance and tools when everything shifts.
But here’s what breaks my heart…
✦ sound familiar ✦

You’re pulling advice from Google, Chat GPT, friends, podcasts, and professionals but none of it fully fits your situation. So you’re left trying to connect the dots on your own, hoping you haven’t missed something important.

What should you say to your children? What shouldn’t you say? What actually matters right now? Without a clear plan, every decision feels loaded and the fear of getting it wrong keeps creeping in.

You’re navigating one of the most emotional times of your life yet still expected to make clear, strategic decisions. And without the right guidance, it’s easy to act in the moment… and only later realise what it may have cost you.




✦ WHAT IS UNCOUPLE BY DESIGN? ✦
Uncouple by Design is your all-in-one separation survival guide... your sanity-saving, money-saving strategies and tips, your scripts, your record-keeping tools, and your step-by-step guidance... all brought together in one place, so you always know what to do next.
Everything is designed to meet YOU exactly where you are.
Whether you’re in the first 24 hours, preparing for conversations, speaking with lawyers, or trying to stay calm in the middle of it all, you have the right guidance, right when you need it.
No more jumping between advice, notes, and scattered documents.
No more trying to remember what someone said, what you should have asked, or what step comes next.
Inside you’ll find, everything organised, simplified, and ready for you...
→ what to say…
→ what to do…
→ what to protect.
This is the place you come back to (again and again) to think clearly, act calmly, and move forward with confidence.
It's separation guidance that’s been lived. And refined to guide you through every step.
A clear, step-by-step path so you stop second-guessing and start moving forward with confidence.

Scripts that help you stay calm, composed, and protected in every conversation.

Simple systems to document everything properly so you’re never caught off guard when negotiations get tricky.

All your guidance, tools, and next steps, organised and ready when you need them most.
A clear, step-by-step path so you stop second-guessing and start moving forward with confidence.

Scripts that help you stay calm, composed, and protected in every conversation.

Simple systems to document everything properly so you’re never caught off guard later.

All your guidance, tools, and next steps, organised and ready when you need them most.
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✦ THE TRUTH ✦
Here’s what I see again and again…
Here’s what I see again
and again…
Smart, capable women (strong in every other area of their life) suddenly second-guessing everything when it comes to separation.
Overthinking what to say.
Hesitating on what to do.
Hoping they’re making the right decisions… while quietly wondering if they’ve already missed something important.
Not because they’re incapable.
But because no one ever showed them how to navigate this.
And the advice out there? It’s scattered. Conflicting. Often too late… or too generic to actually help in the moments that matter.
But here’s the truth no one really says out loud:
You’re not getting it wrong.
You’ve just never been given a clear way to move through this.
You already know more than you think.
You know what feels right.
You know what matters for your children, your future, your peace.
But in the middle of overwhelm, emotion, and uncertainty
that clarity gets buried.
Uncouple by Design doesn’t replace your instincts...
it supports them.
It brings structure to the chaos.
Clarity to the confusion.
And gives you the right steps, the right words, and the right tools
so you can move forward with confidence.
This isn’t about handing your power over.
It’s about helping YOU use it.
Your voice stays yours.
Your decisions stay yours.
But now you know exactly how to move forward... calmly, clearly, and in control.


✦ HERE'S WHAT STARTS TO SHIFT ✦
This is where everything starts to shift... quietly, powerfully, and for good.
✦ THIS IS CREATED FOR YOU IF ✦
You’re standing at the edge of something you didn’t plan for where every decision feels heavy, and you’re not sure where to start.

Because what you do now could impact your children, your finances, and your future and that pressure is hard to carry alone.
The emotions, the conversations, the legal side of things… it’s a lot. And trying to make sense of it all is leaving you feeling stretched and unsure.

Not perfect. Not having it all figured out.
Just steady… grounded… and confident that you’re making the right decisions.
A clear, step-by-step path so you stop second-guessing and start moving forward with confidence.

Scripts that help you stay calm, composed, and protected in every conversation.

Simple systems to document everything properly so you’re never caught off guard later.

All your guidance, tools, and next steps, organised and ready when you need them most.
✦ LET'S BREAK IT DOWN ✦

You know exactly what to do first — instead of spiralling, guessing, or freezing
No more “what now?” — just clear next steps that keep you moving forward with confidence

You stay calm, clear, and in control — even in the most emotional moments
You avoid saying the wrong thing in the heat of the moment — and protect yourself as you go

From money to your children — you understand how to keep a record from the start
No missed details. No “I wish I had known that sooner” moments

Conversations, agreements, timelines — all organised and easy to access when you need them
You’re prepared, informed, and never caught off guard later

No more second-guessing every decision — just calm, clear direction
You have something to turn to — so you don’t feel like you’re doing this alone
And instead of reacting in the moment…
You start responding with clarity.
Instead of feeling behind…
You feel prepared.
Instead of hoping you’re doing the right thing… You know you are.


From money to your children — you understand how to keep a record from the start
No missed details. No “I wish I had known that sooner” moments

This is the difference between figuring it out as you go…
and moving through separation with clarity, confidence, and control.
This is the difference between figuring it out as you go… and moving through separation with clarity, confidence, and control.


Uncouple By Design includes everything you need to know from day one.
It's all about helping you secure your peace of mind while working towards a better outcome.
Empower yourself with knowledge and tools to approach your separation with confidence… focused on creating a peaceful and positive future for you and your children.



✦ WHAT WOMEN ARE SAYING ✦


✦ CREATED BY ✦
Let’s not sugarcoat it—divorce isn’t on anyone’s vision board.
It’s emotional, messy, and often terrifying. I’ve been there too!
As the founder of Hello Mojo, I created Uncouple By Design because I know what it feels like when your world changes in the blink of an eye... and no one hands you a roadmap.

In 2013, I found myself navigating separation as a new mum with a one-year-old and a newborn. And to complicate things even more... I was an expat living in a foreign country.
Blindsided. Overwhelmed. Trying to hold it together… while quietly falling apart.
I didn’t know what to do.
What to say.
Or how to protect myself.
And like so many women, I went looking for answers, only to find scattered advice, conflicting information, and nothing that truly helped in the moments that mattered.
So I created what didn’t exist.
First... I created
an app to help keep a record of everything.
I launched this app in Australia, the USA and UK.
Then I started Hello Mojo Magazine...
And then more... so much more!
Over the past 12+ years, I’ve supported thousands of women at the start of their separation process. Seeing first-hand what works, what doesn’t, and where people get caught out.
And here’s what I know for sure...

You don’t need more information.
You need the right guidance... at the right time.
That’s what this is.
A combination of lived experience, practical strategy, and real-world insight
designed to help you think clearly, act calmly, and move forward with confidence.

And as I continue my journey and work as a Neuro Transformational Coach and Practitioner, everything I create is grounded in one core belief...
When you feel steady within yourself, everything around you starts to shift.
Because the truth is…
→ You don’t experience what you want.
→ You experience what your nervous system feels safe to hold.
And during separation when everything feels uncertain it’s easy to fall into patterns of fear, overwhelm, and self-doubt.
Just so we are clear...
I’m NOT a lawyer, and this isn’t legal advice.
This is the guidance that helps you walk into those conversations with your lawyer, your ex, and your next steps prepared, grounded, and one step ahead.
What I am...
I’m your guide through this.
Your steady voice when things feel overwhelming.
And the person who helps you avoid the costly mistakes most women don’t see coming... until it’s too late.
Uncouple By Design is everything I wish I had on
day one.
And now… you have it!
✦ HOW IT WORKS ✦
You land inside and immediately know what matters most.
Whether you’re in the first 24 hours or already partway through the process, you’re guided to exactly where to begin — with clear, practical steps that help you feel steady, not overwhelmed.
No more wondering what to do first.
No more trying to piece things together.
Just a clear place to start.
As situations come up, you’ll know exactly how to handle them.
From what to say in difficult conversations…
to what decisions need your attention…
to what actually matters right now — you’re guided step by step, with the right words, the right tools, and the right next move.
So instead of reacting in the moment, you respond with clarity.
No more scattered notes, forgotten details, or conflicting advice.
You’ll have everything organised in one place — your guidance, your scripts, your documentation tools — so you can keep track of what matters, stay prepared, and feel confident you’re not missing anything important.
Each step becomes clearer than the last.
Instead of second-guessing, you start to trust yourself.
Instead of feeling behind, you feel prepared.
Instead of hoping you’re doing the right thing… you know you are.


✦ LET'S BREAK IT DOWN ✦


SIGNATURE Separation Guide


Valued at $497
A 64-module practical, grounded companion — helping you slow things down, think clearly, and move forward with intention.
Separation can feel like a tidal wave — emotions, decisions, legal conversations, children… it’s a lot.
And here’s what I see happen time and time again…
✦ Women try to wing it.
✦ They make life-changing decisions in emotional moments.
✦ Or wait too long to get the right support — and it costs them.
The Ultimate Guide: Divorce Wisdom is your practical, grounded companion — helping you slow things down, think clearly, and move forward with intention.
Whether you’re just starting to consider separation or already in the middle of it, you’ll have:
✦ The clarity to know what actually matters
✦ The confidence to make informed decisions
✦ The steps to protect yourself — emotionally, financially, and practically
No overwhelm.
No guesswork.
No “I wish I had known that sooner.”
Just clear, calm, step-by-step guidance — from experts and women who have already walked this path.
This is everything I wish I had on day one.


DOCUMENTING SYSTEM


DOCUMENTING SYSTEM
Valued at $147
A step-by-step documenting system that keeps everything organised, accessible, and ready when you need it most.
Includes a Trello template, downloadable Word document and printable PDF.
A simple, powerful way to track what matters — in the moment
When you’re going through separation, details matter more than you think.
Conversations. Agreements. Financials.
The small things that feel easy to remember… but often aren’t — especially under stress.
And here’s where most women get caught out…
✦ They rely on memory.
✦ Scattered notes.
✦ Screenshots buried in their phone.
Only to realise later — they don’t have what they need, when they need it most.
This changes that.
This step-by-step documenting system gives you a clear, structured way to capture everything that matters — as it happens.
Inside, you’ll have a guided setup to track:
✦ Communication and key conversations
✦ Financial details and shared expenses
✦ Important events, timelines, and agreements
✦ Evidence and documentation — all in one place
You can use the done-for-you Trello system — simple, guided, and accessible anywhere on your phone or laptop.
Or, if you prefer something more straightforward…
You’ll also have a downloadable text-based version
that you can use digitally or print out — whatever feels easiest for you.
✦ No pressure.
✦ No tech overwhelm.
✦ Just a system that works.
This isn’t just about staying organised.
It’s about staying protected.
** Based off Hello Mojo's #1 Divorce Document App originally available from the App Store and on Google Play Store in USA, UK and Australia. No longer available.

video masterclass
Some things are better explained through conversation. In this expert-led video series, I personally guide you through the most important steps of separation and divorce, breaking down what you really need to know. If you don't have time to read my Divorce Wisdom book, then it's all here - in bite-sized videos - for you to watch on the go.


On-Demand Support Tool


Valued at $97
Real-time support that helps you stay clear, calm, and in control — exactly when you need it.
Separation doesn’t happen in neat, planned moments.
✦ It happens in the texts you didn’t expect.
✦ The conversations you weren’t ready for.
✦ The decisions you have to make… right now.
And in those moments, it’s easy to feel unsure, emotional, or reactive.
This is where most mistakes happen.
Wisdom On Demand changes that.
It’s like having calm, grounded guidance in your pocket — ready whenever you need to pause, think clearly, and respond with intention.
Built from everything inside the Divorce Wisdom Guide, this tool helps you:
✦ Work through what to do in real-time situations
✦ Get clarity when your mind feels overwhelmed
✦ Make decisions you feel confident about
Your Go-To for Difficult Messages
Before you send that text or email… pause.
Run it through Wisdom On Demand.
It helps you emotionally edit your words — so you stay clear, respectful, and in control, even when things feel heated.
✦ No reacting.
✦ No regret.
✦ No “I wish I hadn’t said that.”
Support That’s Always There
Available anytime, anywhere — so you’re never left figuring things out alone in the moments that matter most.
This isn’t just a tool.
It’s steady, reliable support — right when you need it.

video masterclass
Some things are better explained through conversation. In this expert-led video series, I personally guide you through the most important steps of separation and divorce, breaking down what you really need to know. If you don't have time to read my Divorce Wisdom book, then it's all here - in bite-sized videos - for you to watch on the go.
✦ WANT MORE? ✦

Valued at $47


Retaining the wrong lawyer can cost you—financially, emotionally, and in outcomes that truly matter. This practical, eye-opening guide gives you 32 essential questions you could ask when interviewing family lawyers, helping you find someone who truly understands your situation and will advocate for you.
Valued at $69


This powerful 10-step checklist gives you the essential actions to protect your assets, avoid costly slip-ups, and take back control.
Valued at $27


These two simple drink recipes are your daily dose of self-care. They help balance your pH, reduce stress, support your gut, and boost your immune system—while flooding your body with nutrients and even helping your skin glow. Because looking after your health isn’t a luxury right now—it’s essential.
Valued at $37


This soothing 26-minute guided meditation gently encourages deep, intentional breathing to calm your nervous system and reduce stress from the inside out.
Designed specifically for women (and men, too!) navigating separation, it helps you release emotional tension, reconnect with your breath, and return to a place of grounded self-worth. With each breath, you'll feel more centred, more present, and more in control of your day.
Valued at $47


This simple yet powerful 6-step Trigger Diffuser helps you move from autopilot to awareness—so you can respond with clarity instead of reacting with regret. It’s fast, effective, and designed to bring you back to calm when you need it most.
Valued at $29


This guide gives you the three most essential boundaries (plus a bonus one!) that every woman needs to set for a more peaceful, empowered separation.

A Decade of Wisdom The Ultimate Guide: Divorce Wisdom delivers 12+ years of personal lessons, legal insights, and emotional breakthroughs—packaged into one powerful, easy-to-follow step-by-step plan.
(Valued at $497)
Priceless Insights from Experts Not just my story. You’ll hear the collective wisdom of lawyers, psychologists, and real women who’ve walked this path before you.
(Priceless!)
$200,000 Worth of Lessons—Without the Legal Bills I’ve spent more than $200K in legal fees (because I didn't know then what I'm giving you today!)—and hundreds of thousands more on healing, recovery, and personal growth. This bundle gives you the key takeaways—no hourly rates, no guesswork, no overwhelm.
(Priceless!)
A Done-For-You Step-By-Step Record-Keeping System One of the most powerful tools in the bundle. I used to pay my lawyer $500/hr to sort through my documents. Now? I use this Trello-based system to track everything, export it with one click, and save thousands in legal fees—while staying calm, organised, and legally prepared.
(Valued at $147)
Wisdom On Demand. Anywhere. Anytime. 24/7 access to Wisdom On Demand via your personalised AI support bot—ask anything, anytime, and get clear, custom guidance in seconds.
(Valued at $97)
Bonus Resources From setting boundaries to boosting your immune system, these extras support your emotional and physical well-being every step of the way.
(Valued over $250)
A Decade of Wisdom The Ultimate Guide: Divorce Wisdom delivers 12+ years of personal lessons, legal insights, and emotional breakthroughs—packaged into one powerful, easy-to-follow step-by-step plan. (Valued at $497)
Priceless Insights from Experts Not just my story. You’ll hear the collective wisdom of lawyers, psychologists, and real women who’ve walked this path before you. (Priceless!)
$200,000 Worth of Lessons—Without the Legal Bills I’ve spent more than $200K in legal fees (because I didn't know what I'm giving you!)—and hundreds of thousands more on healing, recovery, and personal growth. This bundle gives you the key takeaways—no hourly rates, no guesswork, no overwhelm. (Priceless!)
A Done-For-You Step-By-Step Record-Keeping System One of the most powerful tools in the bundle. I used to pay my lawyer $500/hr to sort through my documents. Now? I use this Trello-based system to track everything, export it with one click, and save thousands in legal fees—while staying calm, organised, and legally prepared. (Valued at $147)
Wisdom On Demand. Anywhere. Anytime. 24/7 access to Wisdom On Demand via your personalised AI support bot—ask anything, anytime, and get clear, custom guidance in seconds. (Valued at $97)
Bonus Resources From setting boundaries to boosting your immune system, these extras support your emotional and physical well-being every step of the way. (Valued over $250)
I'm all about you feeling empowered and way less overwhelmed. If this bundle doesn't make you feel like you’ve gained a superpower, get a full refund within 365 days.

And if that is you... YES! I agree.
When your future, legal costs, and property settlement are unknown, every dollar matters!
But that’s exactly why this bundle is essential. Because without guidance, support, and an organised system for keeping record of what really matters—you’ll pay for this process one way or another (10 fold or more)… through costly legal mistakes, unnecessary stress, and time you’ll never get back.
We may be the Perfect Match if...
(Let’s make sure this bundle has your name all over it!)
You want to feel informed, in control, and one step ahead from the start.
You’re not sure what’s next, but you know you can’t afford to get it wrong.
Things are calm (for now), but you want to be ready if it turns messy.
You don't know where to start and would love for someone to help you map it all out clearly.
You’ve already finalised your divorce and sorted everything legally.
You’re looking for legal advice or someone to take over the whole process.
You’re not ready to take action or face the facts just yet.
You already know all the steps you need to take.
✦ PS. IS THIS YOU? ✦

And if that is you... YES! I agree.
When your future, legal costs, and property settlement are unknown, every dollar matters!
But that’s exactly why this bundle is essential. Because without guidance, support, and an organised system for keeping record of what really matters—you’ll pay for this process one way or another (10 fold or more)… through costly legal mistakes, unnecessary stress, and time you’ll never get back.

-Alex, Sydney

I was torn—money was tight, and everything felt uncertain. But this bundle turned out to be the best investment I made during my separation. It gave me structure when I felt scattered, clarity when I was second-guessing everything, and most importantly, it helped me protect what mattered most: my children, my finances, and my future. I genuinely believe it saved me thousands—and so much heartache.
-Maria, Cairns

I was torn—money was tight, and everything felt uncertain. But this bundle turned out to be the best investment I made during my separation. It gave me structure when I felt scattered, clarity when I was second-guessing everything, and most importantly, it helped me protect what mattered most: my children, my finances, and my future. I genuinely believe it saved me thousands—and so much heartache.
-MARIA, CAIRNS
